Alpha male <smirk> talk applies to only one guy here, and that's cause he needs it, because he thinks he needs it. Its a crutch. It's not about being a cave man, its about not being a floral doormat.

Good advice for Jeff though, all around.

Live for you, cause no oen else will, and you cannot live for someone else.



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Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

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