I think that is it, MIke. We are out-of-the-ordinary. Maybe even above the ordinary, if I dare be so bold and judgemental (ot will spank me on that one).
But we do have high moral standards. That is not ordinary; its special. You asked me once when I gave you a similar comment - that you were a good guy - you asked What makes me think that you are a good guy?
It is your integrity. Your commitment to your daughter. Your attempts to make things work and stand by your vows. Your willingness to do the hard work, look within yourself at the bad, as well as the good, and make changes accordingly.
Mike, don't compromise your integrity and morals, for anyone. In the end, you would feel terrible, not better, because it is integral to who you are. And that is a positive thing. It should inspire those around you to rise up; rather than the other way around.
Everyone has self-doubts. I think that is why your fb posts were so cryptic - and we are here to validate you, my friend. Soldier of the heart, you are. Its ok to ask for that from us sometimes; you are sure to get it. You are one of the good guys, no question about it.
We need to be able to have some recognitions on DB, don't you think? Maybe a rank system like the military, or badges of honor (could we get merit badges, like Scouts? Hey, that might be fun! We need to set out some requirements...do 4 of the 6 activites below to earn this badge for your sash!) Hey, thinking about that might cheer you up a bit - just think of all the things you have learned and accomplished through this journey!
