Doing what got me this far.

[Distressed67]

Tim,

My response may not be popular but it's what I see. IMHO she is doing what she needs to do to keep the family on track. Seems to be her focus. And to be friends with you. I mean honestly, what goes on between the 2 of you could safely go on between 2 friends.

Your conversation with her leaves me with a feeling that she's playing a little dumb so the discussion will die there. But she's been doing that for a while.

Yes, she has been doing it for a long while and I am tired of it. I am glad we are friends but I want a W not a room mate.

Good for you for putting the MC expectation out there. So it's safe to say she did not go to IC, yes?

I would say she did not go. She never responded to the MC and I did not ask about IC for her. Her silence and hesitation speaks vulomns.

IMHO, again, I feel her children are very important to her and that's her main focus through all of this and has always been. I mean if living with you was so awful before why didn't she leave? (sorry for being so blunt here, but this all hits sore spots with me). Keep your children living with a man you fear? That's never made sense to me in all honesty.

Be as blunt as you want. Our children are her main focus and always have been. That is one of our issues. I love my kids and want the best for them but as I told her long ago, there will come a time when they are gone at it will be just us and if we don’t work on us there wont be anything there when they are gone. And here we are.

I'm deleting more and more so that means time to shut my mouth.

You don’t need to worry about offending me, that’s quite impossible to do. Say what is on your mind about me or my W. Its all helps.

It's MC or bust at this point. Unless she wakes up very soon and decides to treat you like a husband and not a room mate.

Whiskey

I’m still asking, she is still not going.