I agree, just wondering about the timing. He suggested over dinner tonight. Alas tonight is the anniversary of bomb #1 (actually, that would be around 2 p.m.), and I was rather hoping to have some fun and create a new memory for this day.
(Actually it's not the date, but the day of the week, tomorrow is the "date").
CJ did suggest making dinner or going out. I think I'm leaning towards going out.
I woke up late (surprise!) and CJ did get off his laptop to come into the back room and give me a looooong hug.
He's off to his sis's shop to get his hair done.
I got tons of work done yesterday, even into some lectures for later in the fall. Getting kind of excited about my extra work-load (which sure beats doubting if I can handle it'! ).
Last night, CJ was finishing an assignment (on the couch with his laptop) and I was finishing up about an hour of yoga and weights when pals D and H came by for a "20-minute" visit. Right! But that's okay, we had a good time, lots of laughs.
And so here we are today....not quite sure what to do with myself. Don't really want to work. Don't want to clean (that's what I was doing last year when the bomb hit...all proud of myself, three weeks post op).
It's sunny with a nice breeze, around 80 degrees. Maybe I'll just "45" up and sit on the deck with a book. Enjoy my greenery.
Okay...while I was posting this....the phone rings and I recognize the number...it's L, my xfiance's mom!!!
She and I used to do birthday lunches for around, heck, 14 years after that R ended. This last year, I just couldn't face her with all this crap going on. But it's so weird that she called today of all days!!
Plus yesterday would have been my 25th anniversary (of dating) if I'd stayed with her son. 25th!!! CAN I be that old???
I could finish my work out from last night....we'll see what the day brings.
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