I think I am not normal. Can you be abnormal in a good way...?
I mean, I tried EVERYthing to save my marriage, to a man who was cheating and lying to me.
I don't think that is the "normal" response. I also developed a mental condition (depression), needing professional intervention. I think people who knew that information about me would say that I was abnormal, and shy away from any involvement.
Maybe we are all just differently abnormal...
(as an artist, I tend to embrace abnormal - I actually think my X was more of a "normal" guy...)
You, Mike, are an out-of-the-ordinary man. Maybe that is a better way to see it.