I think I am not normal. Can you be abnormal in a good way...?

I mean, I tried EVERYthing to save my marriage, to a man who was cheating and lying to me.

I don't think that is the "normal" response.
I also developed a mental condition (depression), needing professional intervention. I think people who knew that information about me would say that I was abnormal, and shy away from any involvement.

Maybe we are all just differently abnormal...

(as an artist, I tend to embrace abnormal - I actually think my X was more of a "normal" guy...)

You, Mike, are an out-of-the-ordinary man. Maybe that is a better way to see it.