With my h, it will take him years to do that. LOL!
Here we are almost to January and he has been gone almost 9 months this time.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I really don't like to look at timelines but what the MLCer does is so very childish.
Last edited by MidwesternGirl; 12/29/0804:49 PM.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
H got here early--before 10AM. He is taking S18 to work and will come back and take me in a bit.
He already delegated chores. Poor D15--she is the only one at home and has some stuff to do but that's okay.
I pray the car is not going to have major charges.
I will check in with you later.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I'm glad to see he got there early. At least you won't have to worry about getting to work late. I can't believe he's delegated chores! That really takes nerve when he doesn't live there.
I hope and pray that your car repair bill isn't too expensive.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
H picked me up but the car place still has not called and we are waiting for a call back.
H took the stuff out of his car and put it in our garage--the box with clothes, books, tools, etc.
He has his regular clothes at ow's and I am not looking at this and saying to myself that he is moving home--just observing.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
No, I think they are from his office at work but I will have to go do an inspection.
The car did not get done. We are having it towed somewhere else as they wanted several thousand--unbelievable.
So h will have to come over early tomorrow morning and take S to work. I have to work again on Wednesday.
H said, "when is this going to end? i cannot keep paying for all these repairs..."
I just listened, we kissed goodbye, and exchanged ILY's.
Tomorrow I will need to borrow his car for an errand as well.
He did spend all day here though. Now I think I will go into the garage and see all he brought in.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Definitely check out what he left there. When will it end? When he comes home, has a job and has more faith in himself and the man upstairs.
At least he was reliable and took both you and your son to and from work today.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
He took the clothes with him as he did not leave those here. He left his books and tools.
What does that tell us? He is not coming back home anytime soon.
Oh--he said he is going to write to his father. No, he needs to find a job. What stops him from doing that???
I will have all day with him tomorrow since I don't work.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
