Separated for 2 months... ice is thawing a little

[Choosing_Life]

Thanks, everyone, for the support and wise words! I don't have time for a long update, but I had a great day yesterday and met both my goals. I did not initiate contact with W, and I worked hard on positive thinking and taking care of my own needs.

@Carlos: The games were great. I scored a goal in the first game with a wicked free kick, one of the best I have ever taken. I didn't score in the second game, but we did win 9-6 (scores are higher in indoor).

I will try to post a longer update tonight after I get my son to bed. Right now I have to get back to work.

Biggest issue I am having right now is: to "go dark" or not? Will try to get more specific about that later, but just wondering if anyone else here has done it and what the results have been?