I packed up all of my W's clothing/shoes/purses from the bedroom and put them down in the basement. She is completely out of my bedroom now, save some clothes in a armoire that I don't use except to hold my TV. She came over yesterday for a several hours to spend time with the kids and made no mention of the bedroom nor her stuff. I had warned her that I was doing it.
She stayed in the kids' rooms the whole time she was at the house. Initally she was going to take the kids out for play and fun at a local restuarant/fun center. My boy wanted me to go and the W invited me along; but I told them that I would meet them there later and bring the kids home. So they left, I fell asleep on the couch watching football. the W called me and informed me that she didn't have any money; so they came home while I was at the store.
Interaction was friendly, sparse, and matter-of-fact. she said that she would return on New year's day to help take down the tree.