Sue, my honey, it's why I have stayed away from your thread....and I suspect it's why your posting has been sp sporadic. You KNEW this was coming.

There's no "I told you so's" - there is only love (((((HUGS)))))) and sympathy from us here who are your friends. The biggest fool here is your H - what a stupid stupid man he is. And don't for one minute think he came back for D4 - he came back because he had no where else to go - he was sleeping in a car for goodness sakes. Well send him back there Sue. You deserve so much better and so does your D and you will not find it with this dead beat hanging on to you. YOU are WORTH SO MUCH MORE!!!!!!!!!

Get read of this man and heal yourself so that you can find a good man who will value the very special person that you are. Let's face it, even OW knows that your H is not reliable material - she is just willing to toy with him at your expense.


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength