Hmmmm...would I want my partner reading my posts??? I would love it, if he were to have the big picture that it's all part of a process (i.e. something I was ranting about a month ago may be something I have worked through, decided I was wrong about, or just no longer see as such a big deal).
I do tend to rant here when I get upset and I think it would be hard for him to see the deep/dark thoughts I have to deal with from time to time. But, as I'm ranting...I'm figuring out the solution and getting good feedback from others.
Another real benefit of posting here is that I'm not expressing this stuff to anyone he knows. I would not want to be sharing most of this stuff with my friends or family, as it would cause more problems and discomfort in the long run. Besides that, I feel that it would be a betrayal of our R.
It does feel safe here to be able to talk out the things I'm feeling in a safe way that DOESN'T feel like I'm betraying my H or our R.
