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[hoosiermama]

Thanks, thru. I take it you're in the same area?

Yes, getting involved in something else is a good idea. Just for a change, if nothing else. I'm so tired of feeling like I'm just existing.

I know what you mean--getting back to the person you were before you were married. The interesting thing is that I feel more like my authentic self than I have in years; I was able to "differentiate" in my marriage over the past few years. Of course, I think H perceived it as pulling away, but he's so used to enmeshment. I know who I am, I know what I need and what I want. I just can't seem to get there. But then, I think this is a time to heal more than anything else.