WAW - Possible MLC I need help, WAWs advice III

[FaithfulH]

Is it better to be me, to do the things I'm doing if she doesn't come back versus if she does? I am in a win -win situation with me. I believe this, hurts to think that way, but I believe it.

LonelyD,

I think your statement above is the key.....

Focus on being the best YOU that God wants you to be. Sometimes He wants you out of the way....but, sometimes He wants you right in the middle. The only way to know is to continue listening to HIS voice. When AmyC said last night that she is only sharing what she thinks....that YOU need to check it out with God, that is so right on. Each of us who post on your thread and others bring our only fleshly failings.....so, consider it all suspect until God confirms which way you should go. I think you are doing great LonelyD....and I am so pleased that I have come to know you even through the limitations of this board.