It makes me smile when I see someone take advice the way you have. I guess its because I never got that from my W. Never said she was sorry... that sort of stuff.
I think you've got it, and are working on fixing it.
As far as printing out the posts and showing them to CJ. It could go good or bad. I kind of did the same thing and got the "That's what I have been trying to tell you all along!" comment. I couldnt give a good explanation for that one. I knew what she meant, but couldnt tell her why I didnt realize it. Of course she was right.
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.