Thanks, AIO, I need the kicking around. I will get over and catch up on your story.
This part is sort of new to me, and very confusing because W just hints around that it's a PA, when it seems to be more of a buddies thing. She has been VERY open and honest about starting to date, so why get all secretive?
However, I decided after that interchange that I wasn't going to do it anymore, and I told W this:
"Do not forward me any more texts from him. He does not know you or me or our kids or our lives."
And I wrote before that he ceases to exist to me at this point - W knows I think he's scum, and she knows I hate the A. I don't need to drive it home.