Had another really good day/evening.

I had to meet S20 part way between here and our hometown to give him his paycheck that had been mailed to our home. While I was gone, W TM'd me and asked if we were going to a sports bar to watch the Steelers kick some Browns butt (it wasn't even fun watching the slaughter) so I came home and we went.

Had a great time watching the game and then came home and continued the nice day with some good conversation and a couple glasses of wine.

At one point, W went outside to smoke and when she came back in she was different. Still ok and still talking to me, but not as much and just different. I'm guessing from the other WAW's comments that she had a little bit of a trigger/pullback due to her conflicted feelings. And that's good for the home team.

We ended the night watching "the sound of music" where W talked about some memories she has from watching the movie when she was young.

A couple times during the day there were things said about early in our marriage and the fun times we'd had. Other things that lead me to believe she's really beginning to defog and figure this out.

I'm just enjoying the companionship and the fun times we're having. I had to drop W off at work this morning as I'm on vacation and she has to work today and tomorrow and S20 has my car. It was nice to do that. And she was very engaged on the drive and when I dropped her off she seemed genuinely warm when she told me good by and she's see me later.

Ok, must go grocery shopping and then S16 and I are going to go see a movie. Got to get some pork and kraut for New Years!

Talk to ya soon.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.