M, I'm right there w/you...I think he'll stay at your house today while waiting for you to get off work. This might be what he needs today...time alone at your home to just relax and think about what he's done and continues to do.
It's interesting that he's spending both New Year's Eve and Day w/you and the family. I would think his roommate would want him around, but because their relationship is what it is...who knows. She may have a new flame these days and your h is just staying there out of guilt.
I can't blame the girls about wanting him to find a job. Your son may be right about not rocking the boat right now. Your h is more fragile than we think in many ways. Let's hope he'll decide it's time for some help.
Enjoy your day!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
