Good morning Gyps....you are the second woman in the last 24hrs. who has suggested i go the buffet route. Actually what is surpising to me is that during our family gathering Xmas eve, 3 women (my female cousin / my aunt / my cousin's wife) all suggested that I go buffet as well. I wonder why that is????
Tostada...I thought that was just between k and i but obviously i did not make myself clear LOL! It was just a nightcap...not the WHOLE date. But it does make for some funny gossip! Not sure what test she was putting me through.
Mike, doc says we are attracted to someone who is able to push our buttons, so we can heal. I don't know about you, but I'm tired of healing for a while. Hugs
Ms Butterfly, I hope you had a nice Christmas & are going to have a better year than this one.
I'm anxious to close this one out.
Hugs sweetie !
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
Why a buffet? It's been a long time since you've been out.. dining.. and you don't know how your tastes may have changed. What before was too exotic, might be more interesting; what you would have ignored you might find more enticing. You have choices.
There's a booboo on your heart. And while you know how someone can kiss it and make it feel better, only you can heal it. Sampling gives you lots of kisses as you find your own two feet, your own life, your own wellbeing during and after your divorce.
Thanks...Gypsy.....i will try to find my own two feet but there are people worse off than me in that dept. Mike I think you may be on to something here....I met up with IL40 last night....exchanged small gifts, had a few glasses of wine yada yada yada....where is the buffet line?
When I was talking about the 'buffet' line it was more about my concern about you falling head over heels for the first woman you were with. That's me projecting my own fears.
You're a grown man with a great heart and an overall aura of goodness. You know what works for you.
Mike I think you may be on to something here....I met up with IL40 last night....exchanged small gifts, had a few glasses of wine yada yada yada....where is the buffet line?
so you detected crazY?? or did I read wrong??
if you got crazy, then welcome...welcome to my world.
