Jeff, We don't know whether he will be at the resort or not. But, if he is, don't get him any more of head space. He's most likely, in her mind, just a friend and I can't see her doing too much w/friends around.
As for her emotional being, they go up and they go down. It's the rollercoaster ride. When they stay busy, they don't think about their feelings or guilt. She'll have some time to think once the holidays are over. As for the credit card bill....lenders will be looking at all of that when it comes to signing on the dotted line.
Enjoy your time away.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
