Oh Hell no, Floyd...too harsh??? I laughed all the way into the living room to share the gist of my last three posts.
Isn't it interesting that the one vote of empathy came from another woman, and the resounding 2X4's from two men???
No, I'm aghast at how my behaviours can come across to CJ!! I have to be HYPER-alert to these things. THIS is what he was talking about when he said "you are controlling"...I'm really only NOW getting some of this!!!
I had such a biased view of our M...I thought it was quite equitable, we always seemed to agree on most things...but here I was throwing these "zingers" and eroding CJ's self-esteem and love for me at the same time!
You're absolutely right, guys, it IS no big deal and Plan #1 is to STOP making these kinds of statements, or at least recognizing them and doing immediate dammage control!!!
