Frank is beginning his recovery

[still hopeful]

Hi Frank,

This is Tom, otherwise known to you previously hopeful_husband. I am very sorry to hear about the trouble you and yours are experiencing. Thank you for chiming in on my thread. Since then, I have read your current thread and I wanted to thank you for all of the support, direction, and encouragement that you provided to me in the past.

Anyway, I do know that I'm supposed to be 'Frank' and do the work I was put on this earth to do. And that means giving W to God and asking Him for help with my family.

THAT's what I do. I have regulary conversations with God. I am working to better quiet myself to listen to His responses.

I am still doing what I am able to do in my sitch, in the way I think is best because I will always remember what you told me way back when, which was that I know my XW and I know my own sitch better than anyone else here does plus...it's MY life.

Thank you for pointing me in the right direction to better myself. Thank you for encouraging me to STOP blaming myself for all of the ills of my M. Thank you for urging me to stop being a wimp and start being a MAN.

I am with you, my friend. Thank you for being you.
Tom