Quote: He brought up again that he doesn’t like the idea of me venting on the bb stuff that is bothering me and NOT discussing it with him.
I know EXACTLY how he feels, SB. You see, my W would tell ALL to her girlfriend...even during her A...all of the details. When piecing, she'd also tell her a lot of that information too. How do I know specifically? 'Cuz I snooped on e-mail and asked in other cases.
Justified or not, I feel threatened by this because she's telling all of our PERSONAL things to someone I don't know all that well. In my opinion, it's none of her girlfriend's business...especially a lot of the A stuff.
Additionally, I get concerned about what my W is telling her girlfriend and not me. One...because her girlfriend has been full of opinions that are contrary to what I've read/learned (although I do know she told my W to stop seeing OM). Secondly, she was telling her things that she should have been communicating to me.
So, I'd guess CJ is worried that you're ranting about him to us...information he thinks he should know, but that you're not telling him. It's a bit unsettling.
