It's Complicated! Part 2

[glamgirl]

Ok I am still at work and this is how the day unfolded.

H finally calls around 3pm and says I am on my way. When he walked in the door I knew it was NOT good.

He sat down on the couch and says Glam I am really depressed. He said he didn't take his AD's for 3 days, he said he took 12 sleeping pills so he wouldn't have to be awake for days, he said he missed his alarm today and missed my calls and he had just awoke. He also said he forgot that I worked on Sundays, now I have been working on Sundays for over a year. Wow!

He said Glam can you come sit on my lap. I said sure h. He said you look beautiful and so nice. I said thank you h. Well, he asked me to go upstairs and we had the most amazing love session in over 3 years. Not so sure what happened there, but h was just amazing. I was and still am dazed.

I went to work and then came home for dinner. We did talk a little bit about h's depression.

I am going to make a Dr's appointment for him this week, we have decided to attend a support group together, and he asked for help setting up IC for him. He said he was so paralyzed with the depression that he wasn't motivated to do anything. He said I am so sorry Glam. I know that you are so tired of all of this. He said I don't know what to do. He said I wouldn't wish this on anyone.

His mom has been diagnosed with depression and we feel this is hereditary. I strongly believe most of the issues my h is facing are due to his depression which is preventing him from moving forward.

What a week! I have to get my h some help. I don't know what direction to take here. Any advice from those who have dealt with deep rooted depression?