25 yrs. I understand about not waiting on my h, but I have and do count on him for childcare. I have no relatives close by and have nobody to watch them until 2am on short notice.

Call it what you want, but other options are not always available to me. If I had someone to come over and watch the kids until 2am I would have used that option. It's different Mon-Fri day hours, but this is a bit extreme for having someone watch the kids. H has been really good with this of lately, but today was an exception.

It's not always as easy as it seems.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"