Just caught up with your sitch. You have been through so much. I am sorry for your pain and frustration that the Ml'er brings. He is running, running, running. Sooner or later he has to stop and look at the damage. I know it does not seem like they will ever do this, but they do. The faster they have moved, the harder it will hit, and yours has moved awfully fast.
Thinking and praying for you, Trusting.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11