The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Thank you all for praying for me & thinking about me. It has been a rough year.
Good 2x4's j, he has gone wacko, this is not him at all & I do believe he has been abducted. I do hope he will be back some day but I'm not sure about that at all. I just keep praying.
nlt, The fuel for the Mother Ship will eventually run out. The euphoria of this move will wear off and he will miss all of the things he had here in the States. He will begin to miss family, friends, etc.
Yes, he's been abducted, but he will return one day. Who knows what he'll be like after visiting the land of oz. You may like the new version of your h or he may be much like the old h w/a few new traits in the mix. Then again, you just may opt to stay single for a while and you just never know what life may have in store for you.
Ntl, all I know is this, you are a wonderful, kind and compassionate person who has a lot of class. Your h was an utter fool to leave you, much less....leave the country to escape his issues. You are going to a great 2009!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Thank you so much for you compliments!!! I appreciate all of you so much!!!!
I really think my H will return from the "Land of Oz" one of these days but I don't know what he will be like when he does. I'm just trying to stay strong, forgive him & leave it to God. That is easier said than done.
I hope my H will see one day what a fool he has been. He had it all.
Snodderly, I don't know if I'm all that but I sure do appreciate you saying it!!!
I too believe your h will return to the states. I have spent time in China and it's way way different. I would think the newness would wear off after awhile.
Your h needs to be on this journey right now. It seems he felt he was missing out on life.
You have been so strong NLT, but remember don't waste too much time on ex. Life has so much more to offer you.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
I don't really think he will spend much time there either but I just don't know. I had a little melt down tonight it just popped in my head that he married that slu.... he was my H & he is supposed to be with me!!!!!!! I guess I'm still in shock or denial one. He was the love of my life & we were just meant to be together, I know we were.
I may have already told this but I'll tell it again, sorry if you have already read. I was ready to leave Nashville & move back to my home town, I didn't like the new management where I was working, I didn't have a boyfriend & no friends so to speak. I prayed one night & asked God what I was supposed to do that I needed a reason to stay in Nashville b/c I didn't have a reason. The very next week my H asked me out, the week after that a man offered me a job that I stayed at for 11 years. So, my H & I both have always said God put us together.
Ok, sorry I'm thru, it just really hit me funny tonight b/c I try not to think about it.
Oh, I did have fun at the party last night, it was mostly couples but some singles also. The ladies were in one place & the men in another & we just talked & had fun.
Thank you all for letting me vent a little on here!
Just caught up with your sitch. You have been through so much. I am sorry for your pain and frustration that the Ml'er brings. He is running, running, running. Sooner or later he has to stop and look at the damage. I know it does not seem like they will ever do this, but they do. The faster they have moved, the harder it will hit, and yours has moved awfully fast.
Thinking and praying for you, Trusting.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Love the video!!! That dog was so cute with the snow over his head!!! Thank you, that did cheer me up!
I'm a little better today, I went shopping with a friend of mine & had lunch. I didn't buy anything but her daughter had gotten some gift cert. for Xmas & she wanted to use them so we all 3 had a good time.
