Hey native, Hope you had a nice holiday. All in all, it sounds like you did.

Well, if you stand your ground & her mood changes, then maybe you found something that might work. For the moment. Remember, the keep doing what works, you can always stop if it starts to backfire - right??

None of us are mind readers & well sometimes we forget that.

I think it's good you are standing your ground. In my short M, my H always said whatever I wanted. That gave me too much control. Olbilvously, whatever I wanted was not the case - otherwise I would not be here LOL \:\)


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)