I just wanted to say that you & Julia are handling your sitches so well, while knowing there is ow involved. I never knew with my H (only what his BF said). It must be very difficult trying to be friends. I give you both a lot of credit.
So is this new year going to be the year of Ali? To detach, not worry about BF and work on yourself and your happiness??
I have decided this is going to be the year for me. 2009 will be the year of Amy!
Ali - you gotta do it!!!
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)