Standing on the Edge

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W went to beach with d. She's staying with a work collegue who I am on the 'outs' with. I unwisely complained about my W's PMS to her at her son's b'day party and got tattled on.

Of course this was before the bomb and likely one thing that helped lead up to it.

I wished her a good vacation. I truly hope she does have a good one. I hope she misses me.

I think the main thing that holds her back is the belief that I can't love her in the way she needs to be loved (romantically, sexually).

For those not familiar, W has PSTD due to rape and has said that ideally we would not have had sex for 6 mos. after marriage, in order for her to 'warm up'......

Any thoughts ?