wow...Snodderly...it seems your xh has just dismissed a previous life. I know I've sort of done that looking back at my crazy early-twenties. I somehow, just disassociate myself from that time and the people I goofed around with. But, they were not family and I knew they were not people I would want to be like...totally differnt.

I've been wondering about the other friend you had...the man from 'eyes from a visitor'....I have most of both parts of your posts from that thread, printed out and have read them at least three times.

H left around 10:30pm...pretty late for him. He seemed just too comfortable to leave.

MIL and FIL went to bed around 9:30pm...it was a very healthy family day.

Tomorrow, I have a day to myself...Inlaws are taking the kids to a play in PA...won't be back until Tuesday early afternoon.

ahhhhh.....

Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home