I would ask you to consider that God sometimes allows us to go through stuff (pain, hurt, trials) to get us where He wants us.
Definitely. God being God, He can see BEYOND our pain and because He knows what lies on the other side of it, He is able to let us flounder a while if it's going to be worth it later on. Begging, bargaining and crying don't move Him. Faith moves Him. And sometimes VERY slowly, too -
Now, that said, I am not "qualified" for ANY of this, FH. I just post what I think. It's not guaranteed to do anything for anyone and every single possibility should be prayed over before being undertaken.
