It's tough to HAVE to accept your son's choices, just because he is your son.
Gotta say I don't agree with that. When my xH walked away almost 8 years ago (OW, went off to work and didn't come back - ignored me for three weeks until D paper were sent), his family never voiced that they were unhappy with what he was doing.
The result? It made him assume that his actions were perfectly okay, because not one person told him they were appalled.
You can love someone, but not like their actions. That means you make a choice to love them no matter what, but disagree heartily with what they're doing and the path they're choosing to go down. You can support THEM without supporting their actions.
I think the two things are OCEANS apart.
Bomb Dropped - 11/08 Working on the R - 12/08 (thankfully short period of time!) Still DBing to see positive changes!
