WP,

Listen to Karen. I have been in a SSM for the past 3 years. And I am now hearing (from a good F friend that W confides in BUT W doesn't know that FF and I are close) that my W thinks I could not possibly have loved her because of the SSM aspect. Obviously this was one of her LL, despite her saying continuously that sex was not at all important to her.

Remember, when they say things they may not really believe them but are TRYING to convince themselves of them.

It's f'd up WP - patience is key.

Figure out the LL and go from there.

Last edited by lost_in_space; 12/29/08 03:31 AM.
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M45
WW 43
D17/S14/D11

ILYB Jan 08
PA Conf Feb 08
OMW / OM contacted
S Jan / 09

No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.