I also noticed how she says one thing, like how her R with OM has changed and that she's not sure if even OM would make her happy, to how "What if it IS him that makes me happy? Can you handle that?"
No telling what the real truth of the matter is.
I told her that that was not something that I had control over and had no choice in that matter.
That's fine. I would have told her what I think which is that he won't make her happy b/c no one person can make someone else happy in the long-term. Not OM, not you, nobody but herself. One day maybe she'll realize that--or she won't I guess. Karen
