Yeah, I think some of my anger that I direct at OW is actually anger at my H too. But it's not like she doesn't deserve it anyway, so I don't feel too guilty about that. Well, no guilt over that really. I mean she did help to break up my family and hers, and she has a history of that.
I have to admit it turns out it wasn't the OW at my house, but H's guy friend's car he was using. So he did/does respect me a little bit I guess, and I do appreciate that!
Sounds good to make a list or goals or whatever. I was doing really good at working on mine and this last month kind of stopped on that. I want to start working on them again, too!
Well, I guess you had a good Christmas it sounds like altho strange. I guess I went through that last year when we were celebrating together although H had the OW for 2 months at that point...I think actually Christmas with just me and the kids was better, but next year H will have them Christmas day so that will suck!!! Karen