Oh, Puppy, Karen, or Sonshyn, what would either of you say to your spouse if they kept telling you that they did not feel that you loved them either? My W keeps saying that she doesn't believe that I love her and that I don't show her love the way I used to. She also is convinced that I only want to remain with her because I don't want to be divorced (sort of for appearances sake). I don't know why she thinks that, and I don't know how to show her love w/out appearing to be pursuing (hence the gift buying last night). Anyhow, I just don't know the right way to respond to her when she says those things. Do you think she really believes that or that she's just trying to make herself feel better about the way she feels about me?
