You are not a fool, he is. You never have to wake up in his shoes. Count yourself lucky. You never have to feel the guilt of breaking up a family. He owns that.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.