I was a crying, bumbling mess. I was without direction and focused only on my H. I really became someone I didn't particularly like or respect so how did I think he would?? I am finally getting back to me, the adventuresome, free spirit. Only difference is now I have 4 kids along for the ride.
I know that I don't want them to be scared of me like I was with my Dad but I don't want to be a pushover either. For the record after my brother moved and I got back from Denmark, my Dad had changed a lot. Then 6 weeks after I got married he had a near fatal accident. He suffered some brain damage and nerve damage but honestly he is so much easier to contend with now. I love my parents.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory