Kristi, I think this might be the first time I've posted to you. I just want you to look in the mirror and see beautiful Kristi. He doesn't deserve you and you deserve so much more. I know that I made mistakes, but I am a good person and I will not be the little woman pining away at home for him.
Do NOT continue with the status quo. It is only going to hurt you in the long run. If he wants to be out, then tell him to go. Just wait for the shock of it. My H thought he had all the time in the world to "make arrangments." While I sit and cry and hurt he thought he could just hang around until he was good and ready to go.
Wrong answer. Give him a little shove. Start the ball rolling. The thing with crud, once it starts rolling downhill it picks up speed. Healing is around the corner if you can only act. I promise it will hurt, but it will get better.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
