One thing that got me was that my friends seemed to be wanting to know the dirt, not all that supportive as far as we will get you through this or let's figure out how to fix this. I would have done better with friends like hers. Like I said before it took me nearly 2 years to find this place, wish I had found you all right away, maybe things would have turned out differently.
My friends mostly seemed like they didn't want to hear or if they did talk about it, just say bad stuff about H and you're better off without him and stuff. Yeah, not supportive like here. I think you guys are the most supportive people ever. But her friends were really great. So supportive and caring. I was really surprised when her friend did that one thing, you know, and betrayed her b/c it seemed really out of character. Shows how much she let her job affect her and change her.
you know this is the first movie that didn't bum me out about marriage or divorce. Don't know why b/c it def. seemed to have that theme, but maybe I am getting to a better place right now. Feeling good about myself and my future although I have no idea why!!!
I don't know that things would have turned out differently for you, but I don't know how you did without the support & friendship here. I stumbled across here I think a week or 2 after the bomb, and am so grateful for that b/c I was in such a low place. I think mentally it makes a huge difference. I guess if our H's weren't so messed up maybe it would have made a difference, too, but I think they are beyond saving right now, well mine at least.... Karen
