you know, Snodderly...you got me thinking...maybe H WAS sitting around holed up in his place. I just never think of that. I think I am the ONLY one that is a hermit!!

(My H would have a heck of time keeping up with the homework...but, that is something I have to 'let go of' on occasion)

H is still here, totally relaxed, drinking some of the wine he brought, watching football with his dad and the kids.

What is your xh like now? My H told the boys that after 35 his body changed like crazy and showed them his 'jolly' belly. He doesn't seem upset over his middle age bulge, but he comments frequently how he is old.

Heck...I'm 14 years older than him and I feel younger than I did 5 years ago. Every since I 'weened' the kids off of me, started to run again and do my own things...I am in better shape than my H.

And...the bummer is, I am much more....sensual now. It's like I hit a peak a couple years ago...and...now...no man ...geez...

Back to the company....


Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home