Not sure about the move date yet Flynn.

The new bed is not here yet. The mattress/box is, but the frame is custom made and isn't here yet. When we ordered it they said 8-12 weeks and next week is the 8th week so it should be in the next few weeks when it shows up. I'm pretty confident that when it does show up, she'll sleep in it with me. We spent a couple nights in a hotel over Christmas and she slept with me. And it was a smaller bed and I have pretty broad shoulders and there was some contact during the night and she didn't jerk away from it or anything like that.

So whether she doesn't want to sleep in the water bed because it really is uncomfortable to her or because she and OM spent some time in it and it freaks her out really doesn't matter. She obviously doesn't have a problem sleeping in bed with me, just OUR bed, for whatever reason.

And you're right, it will be thrown on the table when the job relocation happens, just don't know what that date is yet.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.