Thanks for keeping an eye on me Snodderly...I knew I could count on you to see just the right thing...you're right...I assume he is great...seeing all these people...seeing an OW or a bunch of them...going places, having the time of his life. This is what I assume.
The kids asked if he went fishing...he said 'no'...his boss 'dropped the ball'...he said all he did was sleep in and do chores.
I was going to ask but went for a 4 mile run during which I figure why ask? I won't really know if he's telling the truth anyway.
Inlaws are okay...FIL offered his frequent air miles to me to go visit my mom. That was awesome...only I may not be able to go if it is during school...who would do homework with the kids? I guess H would have to stay here while I'm gone.
4 years ago when he had his A, and then moved out a year later...H seemed SO MUCH a teenager.
Now, he's lost his muscles, has a gut, more gray hair and isn't so 'uppity'...he seems older and more of a man.
But...still selfish and it's all about HIM>
Thanks again...:)
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home