I just saw your response to CL and my post. Just wanted to say thank you for your kind words. Really, I am so glad that something I've posted could be helpful to someone else :).
I will post to you in the next day or two after I go through your situation a bit more.
I hope you have a wonderful New Year planned!
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
