Like I posted from our conversation last Monday, she has convinced herself that I just want her to fail. She's told me a couple times before and I have called her on the things that she has convinced herself about me and what I think. I told her that I NEVER wanted her to fail, concerning her move, but that I did admit that I wanted her R with OM to fail. I was honest with her.

I also noticed how she says one thing, like how her R with OM has changed and that she's not sure if even OM would make her happy, to how "What if it IS him that makes me happy? Can you handle that?"

No telling what the real truth of the matter is.

I told her that that was not something that I had control over and had no choice in that matter.

Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."