And now I'm mad again. Turns out the car was borrowed from a (guy) friend. So I was mad for nothing. Oops! S15 comes home and says I just got Halo 3 so had so much fun at dad's. The background b/h that is H had bought another mature (17+) game for his birthday. I asked him to please not buy them anymore until he is actually 17. H promised me last month that he wouldn't. S15 asked me for the Halo game for Christmas and I said No, he is not 17, he's not going to get it. S15 then asked his dad for the game, and D9 (she's a sweetie) told him I had said no to the game, he's not 17 yet. H bought it anyway saying it's his house and his rules.
Ok. we have always agreed to back each other up. If he said no to something, even with divorce I would back him up 100%. We have always done that in the past. I don't think it's right that S15 is manipulating like this and H is basically rewarding him. I yelled at H and he said well we had never agreed no M games, but I said yes, we did last month!!! He said oh, well or something. I just emailed him that we had always agreed to back each other up and not let the kids manipulate us, and I hope he will reconsider his decision. And sorry about his car not being fixed yet (they fixed it but it's still broken.) And they came home with a bunch of toys again. D9 has started to want a new toy whenever we go anywhere now, and I think it's because of the way her dad is spoiling her!!! Karen
Karen