"W contacts me when she wants something, other than that nothing."
Sleeper , funny that you wrote that , because I was thinking last night about the same thing.
A friend txt me " how was your day Dave ? get up to much ?" . Nothing unusual there you may think , however I was thinking how nice it was to get a "thinking of you" text like that with no underlying request. W ONLY texts me when she wants something. Even when we were married and I was away on business I never just got a "how are you?" phone call.