What a day you have had! Your h better loan you his car. As for your son cursing you, the boy needs to understand that he's the primary person that has been putting mileage on that vehicle. I would also point out that many young men his age, have a car payment or have purchased their own vehicle of some sort and did not have the good fortune of using "mom's" car.
I do hope your h comes through. I do believed someone upstairs is pulling the strings extremely hard today to get him to see more reality in the making.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
