Maybe *I'm* still foggy about this, but I feel I'll never find something as amazing with someone else. Ok, maybe it'll be amazing, but it won't be as deep. I know I partly feel this because no one will ever share the bond or love I have for my children other than their father.
I have this very same sentiment. It's kind of a scary thought.
I think you're right. Its the deepness that we shared and still share, ESPECIALLY for the kids. We've shared and gone through so much, theres no way that they'll experience the same type with someone else, us included of course.
Not that they or we won't experience something great, but just different.
Wouldn't that be great, to be there right at the moment when the light switch turns on? To see them when the 'click' happens? The day of realization?
Our last conversation, I told her that I WANT her to be happy, but that SHE needs to find it, because its not through another person, me included.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
