I think it just that we(you and I and others)know our situation best.
Some couple weren't meant to maintain that relationship. Their WAS's are just complete asses. I see your relationship with your ex.
You were in a situation that everyone kept saying that they couldn't believe that you guys weren't going to make it. The positives were many, but in the end, still ended in D.
I have the same thing. Everything is there, but it just isn't going to have that ending that we've tried for. And the funny thing is, I think that any relationship that we both have apart from each other is going to have this 'ex' issue. The good relation that I'll keep with the wife.
And watching that program about strokes...seeing the damage that some people have to endure and others that it kills...she was so...well....blessed. God has something in store for her and I pray that she comes to realize what it is.
How are your Holidays so far, L-dub?
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."