I don't plan on offering myself on a platter to her, but like Yenko and I discussed, if she needs me, I'm probably going to be there for her. Yenko and I are the same when it comes to this
I am right there with you guys. I am still here for xH if he needs me, but I am not accessible at all times. Some are changes xH would definately notice (and has, and comments) and other changes are only for me.
I am sorry you are here, in that 'place', but you are right. You have done all you can, and you are stronger and better for it. I also see you having a continued peaceful relationship with your wife.
Glad you sent the email. Nothing better than honest without begging. That's the spot you hit, in my opinion.